It’s safe to say that we’re officially settling into spring up here in Northern Michigan (is it though?), and that means there’s even less excuses to grab that two-wheeler and start putting in the miles! Yet again I thought maybe I would talk about fitness and training programs, maybe nutrition as well, but find myself here on a Monday night really thinking about both the motivations to get out there, along with the “excuses,” and the reason(s) we put off that long ride early in the morning or a quick one during our lunch break. I really don’t think there is a wrong answer in terms of the “excuses” part; just simply put: life happens. But where do we interject and assert to ourselves that we aren’t going to let “life happen” and we’re going to get out there? Spoiler-alert: this is also a family appreciation post.

My uncle, who I’m also lucky to call a very good friend and an extremely trusted mentor once told my brother Erik and me right before we went off to college three things to live by: 1) Never miss out on a good time, 2) Never leave fun to find fun, and 3) You always remember the chances you don’t take (edited from its original for censorship purposes). While I’m pretty sure two out of the three don’t necessarily apply to biking (or maybe they do?), the third one even as a “slightly” different take from the original is something that we can all think about. We all know the famous quote from Wayne Gretsky: “you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.” But, how many times can you look back at your life and say “man, I should’ve done that.” Hopefully not very many, but I don’t think there’s a single person who doesn’t have a few items on that list. The reality is, we all have to make a living for ourselves. You may have a family as well. Life is about keeping a bunch of plates spinning all at one time, while trying to fit in the things you love, the things that make you happy, and most importantly the things that make you feel like… you. So when you choose to get on the bike, hit the trail, or carve out 30 minutes for yourself, you’re not just training, you’re choosing joy. You’re saying “yes” to what matters to you.
In my first post I talked about the people around us who make it possible for us to do what we love. And coming off of Mother’s Day, I can’t help but give the biggest and most love-filled shoutout to my wife (and mother to our 3 year old) who lets me put in the time I need to feed not just the competitive nature that comprises a large chunk of who I am, but also just the general sense of happiness that riding gives me. I’m fortunate that she understands that part of me, but there are certainly times it’s not ideal with a young one in the house, and we navigate that together. But I think one of the fundamental aspects of being able to “get up and get out there” is knowing that the people in your circle believe in you. And not only do they believe in you, they love you and want to see you fulfilled. There are any moments where I’m in appreciation of the support, but man if there isn’t anything more powerful than wanting to work hard and do my best for them – I’ve had that thought almost regularly when cranking an out and back, or even just a loop around 25k so I can hit Anita… “embrace the suck, do it for you people.” Many don’t understand the obsession we (I’d guess 98% of you still reading this far) have with this sport, but I guarantee they recognize when something brings you absolutely joy and fulfillment. That kind of fulfillment is contagious, it lifts you up, and it lifts those around you too. The more you chase what lights you up, the more you radiate and attract positivity and happiness to those around you.

I’ve always been a believer that motivation is an emotion; it’s something that comes and goes. When we settle deep into comfort zones and complacency, it makes that emotion even more difficult to access. Like many of you, I grapple with that shifting emotion. Some days I just “don’t feel like it.” I referenced the book Do Hard Things by Steve Magness in my last blog, and let this serve as a reminder that “toughness” is not innate; it’s a skill that is trained, and most certainly earned. As a kid growing up, I remember hearing “discipline, discipline, discipline” from my coaches if I wanted to play at the next level… To the point where it’s really not appealing or “motivating” when typing that just now. But there is truth to it. When the emotion of motivation is not there, discipline is what gets you out there anyway. And when you make it part of your day, it becomes routine. I think once you have the routine figured out and commit to not breaking it (discipline enters the chat), you’re already shaving minutes off your 2025 Iceman time! I am so very lucky in the sense that I have people in my life who understand what it means for me, and that’s what keeps me going out… to get better for my people, to make them proud, and to be an example to our little man. To show him that we work hard, but we also have fun while doing it. Even on the hard days, even on the “don’t feel like it” days, you’re building something. And each effort, no matter how small, is a brick in the foundation of who you’re becoming.

So get out there. Get out there for the people in your “village,” and more importantly, get out there for you. You deserve it. You’re already crushing it just by having signed up. Now go turn that commitment into watts. Let’s ride bikes!
Thank you to Mark Daisy @markdaisymusic for being our 2025 Iceman Trailblazer.